I am deeply cynical
The sum of my hurts, disappointments, and fears
I am unfathomably hopeful
Beguiled by unearned graces
Surrounded by serendipity
And pelted by joys out of the blue
In many ways, life is a double-edge sword, fortune and misfortune mysteriously entwined. The difference may largely be what we focus upon. I find that the firmest foundation upon which to rest my attitude is gratitude for all that is fortunate in my life. Most of this, such as the gift of life itself, is not my doing. Granted, much of the difficulties in my life also originate outside of my control. Of course, I have a great say in what I choose to focus upon. Frankly, I find gratitude so much more pleasant than resentment. That which I do have some control over is a priceless gift of opportunity. And such opportunity is best engaged with courage rather than fear and timidity. As Amelia Earhart said so well, “Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace.” May you find, that inasmuch as your life is out of control, that it comes to you characterized by grace, joy, and hope, rather than hurt, disappointment, and fear. May you find, that inasmuch as your life is in your control, that you meet it with courage and gratitude, rather than fear and resentment.